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Pornography’s effects on addict’s wives

Pornography has a devastating effect on marriages. Wives who discover their husband’s addiction encounter several reactions such as: – feel betrayed. – Feel ugly. – Feel not good enough. – Lost trust in husband/men in general. – Feel they have … Continue reading

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9 Priorities in Starting a Youth Ministry (Part 3)

In the past two days’ I’ve covered 6 other Roles: (links below) Tuesday we talked about Culture, Community and Construction and Wednesday we talked about Evaluation, Engagement and Enterprise. Roles When entering a church, it’s important for you to understand … Continue reading

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Beloved on Valentines Day in Song of Solomon

Song of Songs Been reading Song of Songs (or Solomon) lately. There are several things that jump out at me. Most vividly is the discourse between Solomon and His Beloved. This Song is also of one between God and His … Continue reading

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Valentines Hashtag #MWIA

I’m getting tired of the stereotypical youth pastor/minister/pastor, with their incessant exclamation that their “Wife is Hotttttt!!!” as their only justification for their wife’s existence or why they love her, etc. A while back I started using a hashtag #MWIA … Continue reading

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Top Ten Posts September 2012

What should an Ideal Pastor’s wife Be??? 10 Qualities of a Professional Youth Pastor (1-5) Priorities in Starting a Youth Ministry (Part 2) Ministry Idea: Non-Peak Season Can Drive 10 Qualities of a Professional Youth Pastor (6-10) Resources Dodging Bullets: … Continue reading

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Dodging Bullets: Buddy Becca

“Buddy” Becca Becca is a student’s dream for a youth leader.  Becca is one of the most open and friendly youth workers you would ever want to meet.  Becca is loved by her parents, but even more so by her … Continue reading

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Marriage 4: Empowerment

  What does power look like?  Acts 1:8. You will recieve power via holy spirit.  Empowerment is the spirit of love and service.  It comes from an other person first mindset.  You need to be empowered via the holy spirit … Continue reading

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Marriage Series 3: Intimacy

  Society puts Sex before or misplaces it for intimacy.  We work in backwards way of human intimacy and it works differently in Marriage as Well.  .   Real life marriage.  1. Passion and desire  (until the first child comes)   2. Sacrifice and duty. Eph5:25. Sacrifice for each other.  Sacrifice … Continue reading

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Marriage Series 2: Grace

  Grace is more than eternal salvation   Grace = a card to let one off the hook. When we work go find those nickels and dimes on our spouse and keep count of all the loose change we enter … Continue reading

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Marriage Series: 1- Covenant

  Covenant is: Requisite based on the idea we are incapable to do this in our good intentions alone. No matter how hard we try, we cannot sustain marriage on Good Intentions alone.   Troth: Sacred Pledge of Trust.  (also … Continue reading

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