Category Archives: Marriage


9 Priorities in Starting a Youth Ministry (Part 3)

In the past two days’ I’ve covered 6 other Roles: (links below) Tuesday we talked about Culture, Community and Construction and Wednesday we talked about Evaluation, Engagement and Enterprise. Roles When entering a church, it’s important for you to understand … Continue reading

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Waypoints: Plotting a Course to Calling Onward!

Continuing the course to my call. The conclusion of my story is hopefully a long way off, so instead of a conclusion, I will put my aspirations for the future and reflect on growth that I need to continue making.  … Continue reading

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Beloved on Valentines Day in Song of Solomon

Song of Songs Been reading Song of Songs (or Solomon) lately. There are several things that jump out at me. Most vividly is the discourse between Solomon and His Beloved. This Song is also of one between God and His … Continue reading

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Valentines Hashtag #MWIA

I’m getting tired of the stereotypical youth pastor/minister/pastor, with their incessant exclamation that their “Wife is Hotttttt!!!” as their only justification for their wife’s existence or why they love her, etc. A while back I started using a hashtag #MWIA … Continue reading

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Marriage 4: Empowerment

  What does power look like?  Acts 1:8. You will recieve power via holy spirit.  Empowerment is the spirit of love and service.  It comes from an other person first mindset.  You need to be empowered via the holy spirit … Continue reading

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Marriage Series 3: Intimacy

  Society puts Sex before or misplaces it for intimacy.  We work in backwards way of human intimacy and it works differently in Marriage as Well.  .   Real life marriage.  1. Passion and desire  (until the first child comes)   2. Sacrifice and duty. Eph5:25. Sacrifice for each other.  Sacrifice … Continue reading

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Marriage Series 2: Grace

  Grace is more than eternal salvation   Grace = a card to let one off the hook. When we work go find those nickels and dimes on our spouse and keep count of all the loose change we enter … Continue reading

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Marriage Series: 1- Covenant

  Covenant is: Requisite based on the idea we are incapable to do this in our good intentions alone. No matter how hard we try, we cannot sustain marriage on Good Intentions alone.   Troth: Sacred Pledge of Trust.  (also … Continue reading

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REPOST: What should an Ideal Pastor’s Wife Be?

Came across a post today by Ron Edmonson on the Seven Qualities to Look for in a Pastor’s Wife.  He lists seven characteristics that he believes are in the ideal Pastor’s wife: Your biggest supporter. Obedient to the call of … Continue reading

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Think Orange – Book Review (Intro)

  Think Orange: Imagine the Impact when Church and Family Collide By: Reggie Joiner As one of the founders of North Point Community Church, Reggie Joiner makes some observations on the church and the Christian Family.  He picks out themes … Continue reading

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